Screening clients isn’t about being paranoid; it’s about creating boundaries that protect your personal and professional well-being.
As an adult content creator, your safety isn’t just a priority—it’s the priority. Whether you’re camming, creating custom content, or engaging in online interactions, having a solid vetting process is your first line of defense.
Why Screening Matters More Than You Think
Most creators learn the hard way that not every potential client has good intentions. Screening isn’t just about avoiding time-wasters—it’s about protecting yourself from potential legal issues, harassment, and personal safety risks. Think of it like a bouncer at a club: you’re controlling who gets access to your space.
The Age Verification Checklist: Your Non-Negotiable First Step
Let’s talk about the absolute most critical screening element: age verification. This isn’t just a suggestion—it’s a legal necessity.
Robust Age Verification Strategies
- Government-Issued ID Verification: Consider using professional verification services that can securely check government IDs.
- Multi-Platform Cross-Referencing: Check social media profiles, look for account history, and verify consistency across platforms.
- Video Verification: Request a short video verification where the person holds their ID (with sensitive info blacked out).
- Third-Party Verification Services: Some platforms offer age and identity verification tools.
Red Flags to Watch Out For
Not every potential client who raises an eyebrow is dangerous, but some warning signs shouldn’t be ignored:
Word of Mouth
Sometimes shitty people do shitty things—repeatedly. If you have a bad experience, share that with other creators. Stick together; there’s strength in numbers.
Communication Red Flags
- Aggressive messaging or pressure tactics
- Refusal to comply with basic verification steps
- Inconsistent stories or details that don’t add up
- Attempts to move communication to unsecured platforms
- Requests that seem unusually specific or demanding
Financial Red Flags
- Requests for free content before payment
- Chargebacks or payment reversals
- Offers that seem too good to be true
Technical Screening Tools and Techniques
Use digital forensic techniques to aid the vetting process:
- Use reverse image search to check if client profile pictures are stolen
- Check email domains and digital footprints
- Consider using specialized background check services
Creating Your Personal Screening Protocol
Step-by-Step Screening Process
- Initial Contact Assessment
- Trust your gut instincts
- Look for respectful communication
- Set clear expectations upfront
- Verification Stage
- Clearly communicate your verification requirements
- Use secure, encrypted communication channels
- Never skip the age and identity verification step
- Payment and Interaction Boundaries
- Use secure payment platforms
- Set clear interaction guidelines
- Have a documented cancellation and refund policy
Mental Health and Boundary Setting
Screening isn’t just about physical safety—it’s about protecting your mental space, too. Remember:
- You’re not obligated to engage with anyone who makes you uncomfortable.
- It’s okay to say no.
- Your boundaries are valid and important.
Comprehensive client screening might seem like extra work, but it’s an investment in your safety. Every minute you spend verifying clients is a minute you’re protecting yourself from potential nightmares.
Stay smart, stay safe, and remember: in this industry, your boundaries are your best asset.
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